The Ache of Marriage by Denise Levertov

Summary: The Ache of Marriage by Denise Levertov is a poem about the deep feelings of emotion as an ache in a marriage with the speaker's "beloved"

Speaker - talks to beloved about "the ache of marriage"

Verse 1:
  • Speaker introduces the theme of the poem which is "the ache of marriage"

Verse 2:
  • Speaker relates how "the ache of marriage" relates to certain parts of the body
  • "Throbs in the teeth" means that you can relate it the throbbing of a toothache, a cavity
  • Speaker talks about the tongue being heavy with it; refers to the words that come from the mouth can hurt or ache when in reference to marriage
  • The ache of the thigh may refer to the ache one might get as from a marathon, a marriage can be construed as a marathon
  • It is written that the speaker talks to her "beloved"

Verse 3:
  • In marriage one wants to share feelings and thoughts with their "beloved" but sometimes it's not possible and those that are married become individuals
  • It is written that the speaker talks to her "beloved" the speaker talks to her "beloved"

Verse 4:
  • The speaker sees marriage as a giant serpent that has eaten those who are married and deep from within the bowels of the monster they would not know joy even if they look for it; joy is on the outside

Verse 5:
  • Each couple if married will experience "the ache of marriage"

Other Notes:
  • The speaker talks to the "beloved" throughout the poem quite possibly to ask help to fix things that make the marriage "ache"
  • This poem was written in 1964 and still may apply today and seems timeless
  • This poem touches upon a common theme, pain in love

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